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okonomi, Her student loan amount is less than her annual income and as far as I know there are no competitive bids at this point :) (but you know know). Let me tell a horrible story that I recently came across. A friend of mine got married to a very simple girl from some village in India and moved ...

[QUOTE=okonomi;372293] desis are not only eager to give advice ....we are nosy too. Tell us more, will you ?[/QUOTE] [/QUOTE] why not? After all, I am desi too :). I may have to pay out of savings or take a loan if I want to do MBA from premier institute($100K +) in future or I may go underwater if ...

I definitely like her nature, family etc but It ain't easy for me to fall for someone in 3 months. She worked hard(part time etc) to complete her education(PharmaD) and spent lot of money on it. If she moves to India, she may not be able to make good career in India with her degree while here her ...

Thanks Sarkar07. Since our meetings were arranged (initially) by parents and it's just been three months, I think we both like each other but not in love at this point (we can live without each other if things don't work out). I would never marry someone if I am not happy with my decision. (I was ...

thanks OotyGuy, I know exactly what you mean when you said "matter of the heart". I found people on this forum are much more experience than me so I thought of sharing my confusion in front of them in this forum. [QUOTE=OotyGuy;372122]Ahh OP, I know why you have sought advice on the forum, and I don ...

Can you please explain why does the "Urge to r2i grows exponentially with time especially after you have kids and life becomes monotonus after starting a family." Do you miss out your siblings, friends, Parents, Culture or something? [QUOTE=r2i-mumbai;372118]OP, You mentioned in your post that you ...

yes..I understand it's a personal decision. If I have to prioritize among what you mentioned, I would mention my priorities as below. 2. Taking care of your parents - Yes, I would definitely want to be with them when they really need me. If they are doing fine, I don't have to stay with them. 3 ...

I haven't done much research but I checked this with the girl. The girl stays with her grandpa and since she is a pharma professional, she takes care of Medicare etc for her grandpa and she is confident about being able to manage health care expenses for parents (our combined income would be $260k ...

Yes, I am just seeing / talking to this girl and also our families are talking so they are on board with us. My parents are open as such and they wouldn't ask/force me to do R2I or LIA. She might make more than what I am making now, but I am not worried about that part. I started a company after ...

thanks rajradio. I totally agree with what you mentioned and I am not interested in marrying her or any other girl for money, citizenship etc. Also our parents wouldn't wait and let us date for couple of years, so I have another few months to make a call. [QUOTE=rajradio;372215] Oh one more thing ...