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Somebody - I congratulate for the R2I first.

USC is something worth it and go for it with a 4yr + 1 day rule. USC is always better than GC or losing GC :) --- this is just common horse sense.

FYI - My wife threatened to break my legs if I R2I to Bangalore. :)

It sounds like a wife's choice.

dragonfish, Your case is really interesting and wanted to pen my thoughts. I am in the similar boat but not same boat :) I have some questions and solutions below :) How old are your parents and how old are you and your kids ? Why don't you help in cooking food and serve your parents? - help your ...

I second back2desh's problem and solutions and time management. It cant be better :)

Gusty, Most of the parents are above 70's and even some people are losing parents before parents reach 70's. Most of them/majority of those parents cannot live in a US life style for good. There are only two choices 1. Give up USA 2. Give up parents We need to choose 1 or 2. :) Thanks, Santosh ...

NC1, Trust me its a huge subject and cant be addressed easily or immediately, as its long time consuming process. How ever my entire thread has all points. Lot of people face problems but unfortunately no one want to [B][I]open their mouth and speak truth[/I][/B] as they feel disgrace in society ...

vizagdesi -

Special thanks for your gem of advice. I cant thank you enough. One cant make all mistakes and learn from it. We need to learn from others experiences and work it.

Thanks,
Santosh

r2i2005,

My deep heart felt thanks and I consider you as my [B]*senior mentor*[/B] or [B]*guru*[/B]. God bless you and your family and wishing you success in every step of your life.

From the bottom of my heart,
Santosh.

Please note I am from lower middle class family and she is much lower middle class than us at the time of the marriage. Now, our family is like *middle class* from a $ perspective and my FIL/MIL are less than lower middle class. (Again, I deeply respect my FIL/MIL - no offense to them). I would also ...

Arranged. 2 months before I did not even know her. All I know at that time was - I was getting married to someone but not sure to whom. :)

Cantor, I will give myself and my wife another 100 chances to fix it as [U][I][B]no one can break me and wife now[/B][/I][/U]. I pray God two times a day to help me achieve my goals. I have a very strong will to succeed as I know the root-cause of the problem. The key reasons are as below: *Every ...