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Girls parents are besides the point. I feel if we are so concerned about our parents, and that wife should be willing to help us in that respect, we should extend all help possible to wife's parents too. Caring for parents is a part of reasoning to go back to India. Its not the only thing. I feel I ...

Narrow down the problem! ?? The problem is that she does not like the day to day problems in India, the lifestyle, the independence she might have to sacrifice, the freedom to eat and wear what she likes and the potential disaster of having to live with parents ! I am trying to convince that India ...

The most important part is open discussion. I know, and hope, in due course I might be able to convince her. The reasons to R2I are many: aging parents is one of them. Although, living separately is a good option. Even in a different city, initially, so that we can get time to ourselves. I guess for ...

Oh, I am not unhappy in US. I am unhappy at being stuck in US. If my stay here is temporary, and we are all on the same page that we have to go back, then yes, I look at my stay in US as +ve experience. I want to go back to India, as I cannot imagine settling here forever. My family, parents ...

I am also the only son of my parents and cannot even think of leaving them alone in old age. The very thought scares me. I and my wife have good education, and I am sure we will earn well when we R2I. Moreover, we have good family property in India. So ,all the more reason to go back. I am amazed as ...

I do not think the question even arises of leaving the wife ! Thats no way to solve anything... I am still hopeful, things will change. But if they do not, I guess ultimatum might work. I cannot see myself growing old in this country, leaving my aging parents to fend on their own. If in due course ...

going back to India is more important... And initially, I even want to stay in a different city, just so that we can adjust to the lifestyle without interferences. Also, her parents are not currently in India. And they also do not want her to go back! But they will be in India, in a couple of years ...

Been in US for over 8 years now. I want to return home in another 1-2 years, max. My wife does not want to. She does not like India, the troubles of day to day life. I do not know how to convince her. But I cannot live here anymore, its suffocating to me. I cannot wait to go back. I also feel, since ...

I am still in dilemma. I hope I can find more answers in this forum. I just started writing some of my thoughts on [url]http://timetogohome.wordpress.com/[/url].

The question is, that is it really time, and how to convince other family members ...

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