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Things are fine on my side. As usual my husband was nice with me and kid. So far no arguments.

Iam trying to convince him to take anger management classes. Yesterday he did not deny it. But at the same time he did not say yes.

Hopefully he will agree to it soon.

I dont think I will be able to do Gandhigiri. I can do satyagraha.

As some one suggested, kissing him when he slaps me. i.e., highly impossible.
I dont know whether it is ego or self esteem. But I can't do it.

Right now my only weapon is to change him with satyagraha.

Yes Iam happy. Arguments happens once in a while. I dont bother about these arguments that much. As this is common in most of the families. I discussed with many of my friends. Most of them said that they also had arguments with their hubbies about how much work each of them are doing.My only ...

No help from my inlaws. Sometimes the main source for our arguments are my inlaws. Atleast once a month they enquire my husband what he is eating for breakfast. If he says cereals immediately my MIL says " O poor kid you dont get to eat Idli, dosa daily. What a life you are leading in USA. Why, Is ...

I never raised my hand before or after he slaps me. I argue with him. I always feel that the problem is mainly with the way he was brought up. He is the only kid at home and no brothers or sisters. In his view, women are supposed to do all the house hold work, from cooking to taking care of kids ...

Hi Akimohan,

Yeah that is my major concern. Thats why Iam thinking so much about how to change his behaviour.

No, Iam financially independent. I work for one of the fortune 500 companies and make 6 figure annual income. Basically Iam from a very conservative family. I have done some self analysis and came up with following reasons for not being brave and take an immediate action. 1.Scared of Social and ...

I started talking to him about anger management classes. He said "why do you make big deal of small things. That happens once in a while. Why dont you forget". Now we are happy. Just forget past events. If I repeat it then we will talk about what to do next. whether to go for counceling or anger ...

[quote=Going_nowhere;74953]Franky: People will give you advices of counselling, police, courts etc from the fence. If things turn really sour with your relationship with husband and you have to undergo divorce, you'll have no one to go to. (You mentioned your parents and in-laws did not approve of ...

Thank you All.