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Hi all , Once again, thanks for the support. I thought a quick update would be good, because I am sure many of you who read the earlier post must have been wishing that we sort through the issues and stay together. We have been seeing a counselor, and she has been helping us sort out issues. She has ...

They pay interest for upto 2 years after the date of maturity. Mine matured in 2008 and I withdrew now , but still got interest for 8 years in all. You can send someone else to collect the cheque - Or atleast that is what the person who was at the counter told me . I think they need some kind of ...

Thanks again for the compassion shown by forum members. I will close this thread for now . Will post an update a few weeks later on how things are going.

Response inline.. [QUOTE=ahirman;392606]OP its sad to hear this but I must congratulate you for your maturity and composure despite being in such a difficult position. You come out as very dignified person with lot of self-control. Your husband is a lucky person to have a spouse like you. [QUOTE ...

@rimjhim - Taking care of myself if something that I may have ignored. I guess I need to work on striking a balance. @MV - I think you are right - I should stop blaming myself. What he did was wrong and that is as clear as black and white. the rest may have shades of grey. I still dont know about ...

@DBS - I have also been thinking of getting him to sign some papers just to deter him from doing this again. But I am not sure how it is done. I should admit that I have not been able to prioritize things because it is so emotional to me. Thanks for the input. @hope4best - I have also been thinking ...

Response inline .. [QUOTE=rajradio;392460]Questions to ask yourself would be 1. How much would you respect the character of a person who went around when you were going through the hardest part of your life i.e just after pregancy. That 'lonely' excuse may or may not cut it depending on how ...

I don't think I will ever have the guts to meet her in my lifetime. It is my husbands' fault - and I think there is no point in meeting her or speaking with her. I am not sure what she was looking for in their relationship. She is a little older than me and divorced. For now, I have to go with what ...

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Thanks for the response. Blaming myself partly helps in some ways - else , I get completely mad at him. And in that state , all I can think of is separation.

Hi , My husband and I have been married for close to 8 years , and we have a toddler. Life before kid was more relaxed than life after kid . The reason I am making a mention of this is - My husband says that we have drifted after the kid was born, and that is why he felt lonely and had an affair. We ...