Would you take this offer?
Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2017 10:56 pm
Hi,
Longtime reader of this wonderful forum.
I and DH: GC. Kids: Age 7 & 4- USC.
LIA : 17 years.
Don't own a house in USA.
No family/blood relations in USA.
Investments - Real estates in a Indian metro city and B class towns.
DH been offered hard to pass Executive role in a bank in Indian prime city. Salary would be not be comparable to private IT firm..but it comes with intangible benefits- car, house, maid, health care, pension, yearly international travel etc...
He was doing this stint past year on 'short term' basis(without the above mentioned benefits) with the institution and he enjoyed working there. I was with kids in USA while he was making impacts and revolutionizing banking systems in his role.
Our plan was after the stint he would come back to USA and find a job matching his recent experience. We had no idea they would present a permanent offer.
Both sets of parents will be happy to have us in any corner of India.
Every year we visit our home place in India. Kids are exposed to Indian environments.
We travel by Indian public transportation as much as we can. Husband drives the car(non automatic) in India trip. I drive the automatic though. We do regular grocery and household shopping for both set of parents on every visit. So I guess I am aware of dealing with Indian street vendors :-)
During the visits my kids had one major need- need for cool air at night. Places we stayed mostly had ACs, and for homes that do not have AC, we had to put multiple table fans for kids. Although kids never asked for it, we sensed they had troubled sleep with humidity and sweat.
Brain says do not pass up on a stabilized government job, but heart has too my dilemmas-
1. Will kids adjust schooling. DD is into arts/creativity and dancing. DS is still evolving.
2. We cannot R2A if things do not work in India due to forfeiting GC.
3. For colleges, I think there is possibilities for kids coming to US for undergrad and postgrad.
4. Stable future for kids, moving back and forth will not help them.
What would you do if you were presented with this offer?
I am looking for third person's perspective here.
Thanks,
Kavi
Longtime reader of this wonderful forum.
I and DH: GC. Kids: Age 7 & 4- USC.
LIA : 17 years.
Don't own a house in USA.
No family/blood relations in USA.
Investments - Real estates in a Indian metro city and B class towns.
DH been offered hard to pass Executive role in a bank in Indian prime city. Salary would be not be comparable to private IT firm..but it comes with intangible benefits- car, house, maid, health care, pension, yearly international travel etc...
He was doing this stint past year on 'short term' basis(without the above mentioned benefits) with the institution and he enjoyed working there. I was with kids in USA while he was making impacts and revolutionizing banking systems in his role.
Our plan was after the stint he would come back to USA and find a job matching his recent experience. We had no idea they would present a permanent offer.
Both sets of parents will be happy to have us in any corner of India.
Every year we visit our home place in India. Kids are exposed to Indian environments.
We travel by Indian public transportation as much as we can. Husband drives the car(non automatic) in India trip. I drive the automatic though. We do regular grocery and household shopping for both set of parents on every visit. So I guess I am aware of dealing with Indian street vendors :-)
During the visits my kids had one major need- need for cool air at night. Places we stayed mostly had ACs, and for homes that do not have AC, we had to put multiple table fans for kids. Although kids never asked for it, we sensed they had troubled sleep with humidity and sweat.
Brain says do not pass up on a stabilized government job, but heart has too my dilemmas-
1. Will kids adjust schooling. DD is into arts/creativity and dancing. DS is still evolving.
2. We cannot R2A if things do not work in India due to forfeiting GC.
3. For colleges, I think there is possibilities for kids coming to US for undergrad and postgrad.
4. Stable future for kids, moving back and forth will not help them.
What would you do if you were presented with this offer?
I am looking for third person's perspective here.
Thanks,
Kavi