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Post R2I Experience since 2 Years, 2 Months, 2 Days....

Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2012 10:27 am
by back2desh
Wanted to share my post R2I experience since I returned from US back in July 2010.


  • Synopsis:
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  • Returned from Atlanta, Georgia after staying in US for 16+ years (in many places with final destination being Atlanta, Georgia).


  • Job:

    • Took internal job transfer with a much better roles and responsibilities compared to what I was doing in US, working for a MNC S/W product development company.


  • Family:

    • Family of 4 with wife and 2 kids, kinds 10 and 8 years old now, currently studying 6th and 3rd grades in a CBSE school (The Samhita Academy)


  • Reasons For Return:

    • Much better social life, sense of belonging being in India, be closer to ageing parents, kids to have good education and learn Indian Culture, better job prospects, closer to being with extended family and many more...


  • Place of Return:

    • Of course............. Bangalore, Karnataka


  • Status:

    • All of us US Citizens with OCI Card Holders.


  • Experiences so far:

    • Our experiences so far has been excellent, kids have settled quite well, wife is really enjoying every bit of her stay here in India, my office work is also great not much of pressure and I am able to manage the time quite well.
    • When we returned kids did not know ABC of Hindi but they have picked up quite well, I must say school teachers are very supportive towards this effort for my kids to learn Hindi, kudos to them.
    • We initially stayed in a rented house and waited to purchase a house here till our US house got sold, after selling our US house (for a loss :() we hunted for a house for ourselves in Bangalore and finally purchased an (already built) independent house/villa in a gated community. We never liked the apartments to purchase/live even though it has lot of amenities, we wanted a house of our own and also from cost perspective it worked out quite well. Will be moving to the new house shortly by end of this month! Kids are just eagerly waiting to move there :35:.
    • One of the pain point is the commute to office which takes quite long for me (morning 1 hr, evening 1.5 to 2 hrs) as I live in South Bangalore and my office is in East Bangalore - Whitefield. I don't drive car and use our office provided transportation/cab and it is working out quite well. The good part is that it has brought in discipline as there is a regular time I go to office and come back home. Since I don't drive it is stress free and also being environment conscious I feel happy to take office cab resulting in less consumption of petrol and not having my car contribute to the traffic congestion, I wish every one takes public transportation or office cab to help reduce traffic congestion and contribute to a cleaner environment for our future generation.
    • Weather wise Bangalore is a lovely city, the climate is simply superb! Though the city is growing but still there is lot of greenery and many parks inside the city.
    • Kids have accustomed to the Indian environment, their american accent is no more, found lot of local friends, enjoy cricket and other India games with their friends.
    • Wife started working in the same school as a music teacher (back in US she was working as IT professional), this is what she wanted to do as this is her passion/interest. Stress free work and enjoy a lot teaching little kids. A good work-life balance which is very much needed.
    • Never drove a Manual shift car in my life however after coming back to India purchased a new manual shift car (Maruthi SX4) and drove from dealer shop to my home, great experience.... many times the car stopped while changing gears but eventually reached home safely... Driven couple of times to Chennai, Coimbatore, Mysore during weekends and the experience driving on the highway has been excellent, NHAI roads are really excellent and on par with US highways (though you have to pay toll many times, but simply it is worth)
    • Customer services in private banks, telephone companies have improved a lot since i left Bangalore in 1993, lot of things can be done through online and mobile phone (for example train/bus/airline ticket bookings, bank transactions, gas booking, library books renewal etc... ) which a great boon to our country.


  • What I personally feel:

    • Though there are challenges with traffic, noise, pollution etc. and sometimes I do miss US, however when I see my wife and kids being very happy everyday here, their happiness takes precedence:thup: over my US thoughts.
    • Though my parents are not staying with us, I feel very happy that I am able to help them whenever they need with just a phone call. My parents are quite happy with our return as they feel more confidence that their son is near by and they get great opportunity to play and spend time with their grandsons.
    • From work perspective I feel great to share my experience to the young team and feel happy to see that they are benefiting from this. Lot more opportunity for me to work in this area and looking forward to it.
    • Tons and tons of choices for food, being a vegetarian it's great to be in a place like Bangalore where you have a great choice for South/North Indian food.
    • Compared to my professional life in US, here the work is less as I am in a management position, do have lot of interaction with US team however I am able to manage the timings quite well by setting expectations!
    • Jugaad systems works quite well here, the more you know people here the easier it is to get settled as one way or other people (neighbors, colleagues, friends) will come forward to help when in need. This has been a great experience for me. Like we have network of friends in IT industry so that it helps during your job search, the same applies to outside office as well, so it is good to have more friends and lot of things happens through mere contacts.

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    So overall my R2I experience has been very great and positive and I am looking forward to a great life in my new home!

    Post R2I Experience since 2 Years, 2 Months, 2 Days....

    Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2012 4:55 pm
    by Lively
    ^^^Very good synopsis. Your positive outlook is infectious.

    Bangalore, yes, lovely city despite the growing pains and all the other ills. I believe you had briefly written elsewhere about your house hunting in Bangalore. Where did you finally buy?

    Best of luck, b2desh!

    Post R2I Experience since 2 Years, 2 Months, 2 Days....

    Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2012 5:43 pm
    by back2desh
    Thanks Lively! I finally bought a house in Bannerghatta Extension (Bannerghatta-Jigani area).

    Lively;472997^^^Very good synopsis. Your positive outlook is infectious.

    Bangalore, yes, lovely city despite the growing pains and all the other ills. I believe you had briefly written elsewhere about your house hunting in Bangalore. Where did you finally buy?

    Best of luck, b2desh!

    Post R2I Experience since 2 Years, 2 Months, 2 Days....

    Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2012 6:08 pm
    by junusonu
    Family of 4 with wife and 2 kids, kinds 10 and 8 years old now, currently studying 6th and 3rd grades in a CBSE school (The Samhita Academy)


    Hi back2desh,

    We will b r2i this dec to Bangalore,we will be staying near BDA complex Banashankari.My first choice is Kumarans,I hav 2 boys will be eligible for LKG & 4 th grade 2013-2014.
    my queries??

    How Long does it ak to commute to Samhitha?is it worth to mak kids travel that long?
    i am not interested in Aurobindoo,JSS,sudarshan these r nearby schools but adopt traditional method of teaching.
    whats ur opinion?

    Post R2I Experience since 2 Years, 2 Months, 2 Days....

    Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2012 11:54 pm
    by back2desh
    Junusonu:
    From the BDA complex it is going to take around 50 mins to 1 hr to go to Samhita School. In US also the commute was close to 30 to 40 minutes by Car in the early morning peak traffic, so here is another few minutes extra, plus point is there are other kids in the bus so they have fun during the ride to school. It's a different experience!

    Now that we are going to move to the new house the commute is going to be reduced as the school is close by, it should take about 15 minutes. When we were searching for the school my wife looked into Kumaran, Aurobindoo and Sudarshan however she did not like any one of these and ruled out. Samhita was like great impression at first sight for my wife and we got both of our kids enrolled.

    junusonu;473002Family of 4 with wife and 2 kids, kinds 10 and 8 years old now, currently studying 6th and 3rd grades in a CBSE school (The Samhita Academy)


    Hi back2desh,

    We will b r2i this dec to Bangalore,we will be staying near BDA complex Banashankari.My first choice is Kumarans,I hav 2 boys will be eligible for LKG & 4 th grade 2013-2014.
    my queries??

    How Long does it ak to commute to Samhitha?is it worth to mak kids travel that long?
    i am not interested in Aurobindoo,JSS,sudarshan these r nearby schools but adopt traditional method of teaching.
    whats ur opinion?

    Post R2I Experience since 2 Years, 2 Months, 2 Days....

    Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2012 3:29 am
    by junusonu
    Thank u Back2desh,
    Any idea regarding Brigade milleneum ,BGS NPS,SHERWOOD,RADCLIFFE,CLARENCE,valley school
    Am so confused and really worried abdt school admissions.

    Post R2I Experience since 2 Years, 2 Months, 2 Days....

    Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2012 7:14 am
    by back2desh
    Junosonu:

    Are you looking for CBSE, ICSE or State? Depending on that you can narrow down the schools. NPS what I heard is tough and it looks like is very much academic oriented, Sherwood you may get admission we went there but did not like it. Typically new schools they are flexible and give admission post june/july.

    Added to that every person has a different taste, so I suggest you personally visit the school, look at the class rooms, teachers, infrastructure (playground, library, open-space, computer lab etc..), student/teacher ratio, fees, syllabus, and location and then make the decision. Don't just go by website with fancy pictures and write-ups. You should also talk to parents whose kids are going to the school so that it will double assure you that you are making the right choice. My wife looked into many schools by paying personal visit before finally deciding to admit the kids into The Samhita Academy! So, all the best to your school hunting!

    junusonu;473061Thank u Back2desh,
    Any idea regarding Brigade milleneum ,BGS NPS,SHERWOOD,RADCLIFFE,CLARENCE,valley school
    Am so confused and really worried abdt school admissions.

    Post R2I Experience since 2 Years, 2 Months, 2 Days....

    Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2012 10:14 am
    by junusonu
    back2desh;473072Junosonu:
    Are you looking for CBSE, ICSE or State? Depending on that you can narrow down the schools. NPS what I heard is tough and it looks like is very much academic oriented, Sherwood you may get admission we went there but did not like it. Typically new schools they are flexible and give admission post june/july.

    Am looking for CBSE.I had narrowed brigade milleneum as they hav vacancy,but heard mixed reviews.Do u know anybody sending to brigade milleneum??

    Post R2I Experience since 2 Years, 2 Months, 2 Days....

    Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2012 4:42 pm
    by poofygoogle
    Nice post #back2desh. Could you let me know the name of the gated community and approximate pricing. MY BIL is also looking for one. You could PM me if you dont want to post it here. Thanks

    Post R2I Experience since 2 Years, 2 Months, 2 Days....

    Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2012 12:49 pm
    by youngmom
    Congrats back2desh! Like your positive outlook to life !! It is a nice change from the usual complaints and R2I-R2A dilemma threads.