Techie kills wife and then commits suicide
Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 12:03 am
I had heard this a lot about Bangalore, people induldging into extra marital affairs, live in relations, BPO girls and guys induldging in free sex in office etc etc,
But after reading todays sad news on times of India , how the Infosys software engineer Amit Budhiraj killed his wife Rinku Sachdeva and then later committed suicide, apparent reason being extra marital affair of his wife with her colleague and late night work schedules of his wife. I feel that the boiling point has already reached,
I am sure this news will make everyone feel sad about the state of affairs we are in today in our day to day lives.
we should take this as a sign of deeper issues in society today esp those who are married working In IT and BPO sector
Why is commitment lost? what is that a person needs? when a person gets what he or she wants, then why that thing loses a meaning once its possessed.?
People should think calmly rather than take drastic steps and try to resolve issues, though its easier said than done, but doing something which will end in disaster too is not right.
I hope and pray that such incidences dont happen too often and that all live in peace including the departed souls.
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The three-page suicide note written by Amit describes the reason for his action and his wishes after death. He addressed the suicide note separately to his parents, his siblings, the police, and to 'whomsoever concerned'. It also includes details of the bequeathal of his property and claims full responsibility for his death
Excerpts from the suicide note : "From the first day after marriage, both of us were not compatible and we had regular fights. Recently I had picked up a fight with her (Rinku) and she had apologised to me. Despite our differences, I did not intend to divorce her as I love her and I had an intuition that if I applied for a divorce, she would accuse my family of dowry harassment. I did not give this a chance.''
"We shared no decent physical or emotional relationship. Until recently we were sharing one bedroom. Few months ago she went to Muscat to her parents and after she returned, she preferred to stay in another bedroom. She was always on her mobile phone, either SMSing or talking to someone, behind closed doors. From her indifferent behaviour, I suspected that she had an affair with someone. On March 20, I placed my laptop with a camera switched on in her bedroom.
On March 21, I saw that she was talking to one of her colleagues and she had expressed her love for him. From her gestures I understood that she had an affair with him''.
"Rinku told me that if she ever found out that I had an extra-marital affair, she would murder me and then commit suicide. I have only followed her idea''.
"I bequeath all my property, including money and other valuables to my mother''.
But after reading todays sad news on times of India , how the Infosys software engineer Amit Budhiraj killed his wife Rinku Sachdeva and then later committed suicide, apparent reason being extra marital affair of his wife with her colleague and late night work schedules of his wife. I feel that the boiling point has already reached,
I am sure this news will make everyone feel sad about the state of affairs we are in today in our day to day lives.
we should take this as a sign of deeper issues in society today esp those who are married working In IT and BPO sector
Why is commitment lost? what is that a person needs? when a person gets what he or she wants, then why that thing loses a meaning once its possessed.?
People should think calmly rather than take drastic steps and try to resolve issues, though its easier said than done, but doing something which will end in disaster too is not right.
I hope and pray that such incidences dont happen too often and that all live in peace including the departed souls.
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The three-page suicide note written by Amit describes the reason for his action and his wishes after death. He addressed the suicide note separately to his parents, his siblings, the police, and to 'whomsoever concerned'. It also includes details of the bequeathal of his property and claims full responsibility for his death
Excerpts from the suicide note : "From the first day after marriage, both of us were not compatible and we had regular fights. Recently I had picked up a fight with her (Rinku) and she had apologised to me. Despite our differences, I did not intend to divorce her as I love her and I had an intuition that if I applied for a divorce, she would accuse my family of dowry harassment. I did not give this a chance.''
"We shared no decent physical or emotional relationship. Until recently we were sharing one bedroom. Few months ago she went to Muscat to her parents and after she returned, she preferred to stay in another bedroom. She was always on her mobile phone, either SMSing or talking to someone, behind closed doors. From her indifferent behaviour, I suspected that she had an affair with someone. On March 20, I placed my laptop with a camera switched on in her bedroom.
On March 21, I saw that she was talking to one of her colleagues and she had expressed her love for him. From her gestures I understood that she had an affair with him''.
"Rinku told me that if she ever found out that I had an extra-marital affair, she would murder me and then commit suicide. I have only followed her idea''.
"I bequeath all my property, including money and other valuables to my mother''.
