R2IBLR09;156978Thank you desi. Now some ramblings of my own about this subject.
Some personal experiences - my own prejudices,supersitions, and how it went away and my own spritual quest. Admins can move it to a different post or delete if they think it is not relevant to the discussion because it is not really opiniated one way or other. Since i just ran into some topics talking about brahminism / sudras/moslem/hindu etc in this post, I am compelled to tell my real life story.
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My curiosity is analytical; to understand our phobias, justifiable or not.
Since you had time to reflect on this, almost life changing, experience did you figure out why it caused so much grief and anger?. Was it the religion? or even an inter-caste marriage would have caused the same amount of anguish? Or did you come to terms simply and do not want to dwell on it?. Many of us might have or may in the future experience the same thing and it would help if we know how others coped with it. That it is NOT the end of world.
One thing I have difficulty to accept is: Why should either spouse change religion if LOVE was all that counted?. Is it not true that such a forced compromise belies the supposed LOVE between the spouses? I am earnestly hoping my questions do not open old wounds or unfairly pry into personal affairs.
Thanks for sharing such a poignant personal experience.
Cheers!